SPIRITUAL SCIENCE - A JOURNEY BACK TO YOUR TRUE SELF

CHAPTER 14: COMPASSION FOR YOURSELF - THE BEGINNING OF ALL HEALING

Author: Hoàng Nhật Minh

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Book cover image Chapter 14: Compassion For Yourself - The Beginning Of All Healing

The cracked jar and the water carrier

A water carrier carried two jars each day.

One jar was whole; the other was cracked.

Every day, water leaked from the cracked jar along the path.

Ashamed, it said:

I am useless. I cannot keep even a drop of water for my owner.

The water carrier smiled:

Haven't you noticed? The flowers along the road bloom because of the water you have spilled.

From that day on, the cracked jar stopped blaming itself.

It realised that sometimes, our cracks are also the way the world is watered.

The person closest to you is you.

If you have not yet learnt compassion for yourself, how can you truly be compassionate towards others?

1. Many people live in pain without realising it

We are taught to love other people, but few of us are taught how to love ourselves.

We try to please everyone, while abandoning the voice inside that is quietly crying for help.

Real love begins with acceptance: accepting that we are not yet perfect, accepting that we also need to be loved.

2. Compassion is not indulgence

Compassion does not mean ignoring every mistake.

It means seeing our mistakes with understanding and gentleness.

When we can hold our own weakness without judgement, that weakness begins to soften- and healing begins.

There is nothing that needs to be thrown away.

There is only something that needs to be seen in the light of understanding.

3. When we heal, the world heals too

A healed person is not someone who has never been hurt, but someone who has walked through pain and still kept their capacity to love.

When we love ourselves enough, we no longer demand that others love us in a particular way.

Love becomes natural, free, unconditional.

If you want to heal the world- begin by healing your own heart.

Hoàng Nhật Minh
Excerpt from the book: Spiritual Science - A Journey Back To Your True Self

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